Have you ever thought about the same situation for years but there never is an answer? I came up with my own saying about one of these situations that has helped me to boil it down to a smaller situation. This is me speaking to them in my head, “Your hatred and anger isn’t logical, so I do not take it upon myself. I do not let it affect or effect my life.” Also, it’s not my responsibility to figure out why you randomly hate me, unless I was mean to you first!”
This happens everywhere to all of us when people are having a bad day, I guess, and we sometimes take it personally. These bad days describe their life, but they choose that. I sometimes take their attitudes personally and then I remind myself: self: this person doesn’t know me so why do I care??? I have to decide that I don’t. Even if they want me to care, I just don’t because I don’t have room in my head for their random, illogical hatred! I want to say “Person, I think you hate yourself because you don’t even know me well enough to hate me.” If I know you then don’t make me guess why you are angry. But it’s the random haters out there who hate me for no reason that might get to me sometimes. Sometimes people who I have worked with can be put in this category of random. Their hatred and anger are illogical so let’s not take that upon ourselves. They may want us to take that personally but it’s illogical and not even scientifically based. So byeeee…
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